2021 was her first year of marriage. Now, She can’t imagined that she would be 41, newly married and separated.
She didn’t regret her decision, but she said the smiling photos of her and her husband on Facebook didn't match up to their reality. About just merely six months into their marriage she felt like she was failing at marriage. There were too many arguments and fights that neither husband nor wife wanted to back down, only threw out hurtful words to each other.
At last she decided it was best to separate. She was an overachiever in every aspect and she can’t imagined that she would be 41, newly married and separated. She said spending her first Christmas as a married couple apart was heartbreaking.
Has she picked the wrong year to get married? Would 2022 be better?
Now let’s look into her BaZi and at her 2021.
This is a special follower chart 从格 CongGe. Wood Mao 卯 is her spouse star. This Wood Mao 卯 spouse star is under a lot of pressure from strong metal in her BaZi Four Pillars.
Now look at her 2012 YiWei 乙未 TaYun. With strong wood sits on wood. After a string of dates and failed short-term relationships, without any doubt she will meet someone special and get married.
As girlfriend and boyfriend, it was a super easy going, fun and adventurous relationship.
But right after marriage, rather than truly listen to each other's deep-seated needs early on, she assumed the novelty of their husband and wife title would smooth over any problems. She was wrong. They have endless arguments and fights.
What went wrong in term of BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny.
Now look at her 2021. Strong metal suppressing her still strong but weaker wood, her spouse star.
She has a rather dominant personality, and it unintentionally set the tone for their marriage. When they were dating, her husband never resisted her ways, her suggestions, the way she lived her life, the decisions she made, how she acted. It was liked if nothing she ever did bothered him. Now, it was totally the opposite. He was beginning to feel as though everything she did got under his skin–and vice-versa.
Would have 2022 be better? 2022 would be better to be precise after 5th June 2022. Their marriage would still have arguments or fights but on a more manageable ground. *** In term of BaZi, why is this so? Students, please log in to read the answers. To be our student, check it out HERE.