Have you ever wondered why you are always surrounded by some people trying to harm to or sabotage you, talk bad about you and people just dislike you?
Take some examples your best buddy finds out that you fancy a certain girl; your so called buddy or best friend then pursue a relationship with her. Someone steal your idea or invention or what we called “stolen idea” or “stolen project”. These kind of situations are normally indicated in your BaZi Four Pillar of Destiny in the form of Harms. It is usually unexpected and unforeseen and will catch you off-guard. It is normally emotional and it takes time to resolve and are usually mentally tormenting. Imagine being betrayed and backstabbed by someone you trust and love and you cannot simply pull out the knife without leaving any scars – that is what it fells like.
Now take a look at our friend here.
Chart 1. His BaZi Four Pillar of Destiny.
1. As long as he can remember, he has been surrounded by petty person all his life. His colleagues at work are cruel and mean to him, his boss dislikes him and at home he does not have much respect.
2. He is a Yi wood day master --- is weak and his minor roots are barely enough to keep the Yi wood alive. But Yi wood is not dead.
3. Because he is a weak day master, "7 killings" Qi-sha 七杀 (杀) is his negative stars and it represents petty person, sabotages, backstabbing, not likely be able to handle extreme stress and so on.
4. The people who are petty to him is actually close to him like friends and even relatives.
Chart 2. His Ta Yun.
1. In his third Ta Yun, his money star appeared and sitting at his Ta Yun stem. He will be able to make some money just enough to survive and nothing much to save.
2. During this 10 years, his rational thinking and metal state will be affected and suffered from a bout depression.
3. There was not much support from his close relative. Rather being supportive they bombarded him with belittling comments and nasty remarks.
4. This also affected his relationship with his wife. This aggravated the problem and drives him to drink.
The above is often occurs because the person is careless or always take something for granted. The person is either been irresponsible being slacking off or he is simply ignoring certain information that is important to him. Sometime a feel of betrayal carries an important lesson and may be at the end be a dark cloud with silver lining. These are some human personality that a person need to project into himself in order to succeed.