Some are blessed with smooth and happy marriage. But this does not necessary happen to all and very often many people are concern about marriage. This includes all parents having a daughter that is still single and is now over thirties. Many ladies over thirties that came to me are concern about marriage. Every time, it is hard to tell them the bad news. However there is always hope. The suggestion to them will normally be their projection of certain personalities that will definitely help in their love life and make their road ahead much smoother.
Now, let me shows you a true example.
Chart 1. Her BaZi Four Pillar of Destiny.
1. Her spouse star are hidden. Her spouse star is what we called "Spouse Stars go into grave " 配偶星入墓 "pei ou xing ru mu". However, do not panic if you are having similar situation. Do not let the name scare you. Given the right condition, her spouse star can come out from the “grave”. But the main culprit was not because of this.
2. She has a “Shi-Shen” which always fights with her spouse star. Is this the reason that her marriage is tough to achieve? Again it is not the right answer. Her “Shi-Shen” is weak and will not be able to harm or kill her spouse star.
3. The main culprit is the super strong fire which suppress her spouse star. Super strong fire kills the very weak water. This is similar to when you use fire to boil water.
The following part 2, I will show you her second Ta Yun when she started to date.