Do you believe in love at first sight?
In Asia approximately 60% do. And over 50% say they have experienced it.
You were walking down the street, everything was normal and then suddenly she was there and it happened that you fell in love with her at the first sight!
What is the answer? The answer is quite straight forward; it is all related to how your mind works. If you are single or currently not in a relationship then your mind will always be on a hunt for your long awaited partner. Even if you think that you don't care about relationships now still you will fall in love with the first person who matches your criteria.
But why is she? Why not someone else?
Now what does a person really see at first sight? Obviously, a very important screening criterion in our culture is physical attractiveness. In most cases, we fall in love to compensate for our unmet criteria or needs, when we find someone similar to us, when we find someone who reminds us of a close person we love (like one of our parents for example) or when someone meets our unconscious criteria. People are usually unaware of their subconscious minds and that's why they usually describe love as magic or something that you cannot force that follows no rules but the truth is that when they become aware of their subconscious criteria they will be able to know why they fall in love with certain people and not others. Their unconscious criteria are simply a list of traits that should be found in a person before we can fall in love with him.
Does love at the first sight really exist? Yes it does. If someone met your unconscious list the same moment you saw him then most probably you will fall in love with him at the first sight.
When we relate these criteria to our BaZi Four Pillars of destiny, it shows that people who fall in love at first sight is when a person with his or her BaZi attracted to her or his BaZi through the relationship of the 5 elements and ten gods. In each of our BaZi whether you like it or not, it has it own subconscious list that will attract to another person’s BaZi Four Pillars.
Below is a true example where a lady falls in love at first sight when she first met her husband.
Chart 1. Her love at first sight.