"I cannot save money please help me?
I am not sure if I know much about money.
I earn quite a lot but somehow I d o not know how to manage it.
For others, my income is sufficient to support more than one people
but I can't even able to sustain myself. What is my problem?
There is simply not enough money to spend. How can I even think of saving?
It seems to me that whenever I make money, my money just disappeared,
the more money I make the faster it goes."
Are you in the same situation?
Chart 1. Her BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny with her wealth star taken away.
According to Traditional Chinese thought, our life is influenced by many factors. The main five of them:
1. Destiny
2. Luck
3. Feng Shui
4. Philanthropy
5. Education
“一命二运三风水，四积功德五读书"
Though we cannot change our destiny, we can foresee the timing and when an events are going to happen and
prepare ourself and try to adapt to circumstances accordingly.
If you know it is going to rain, you can bring an umbrella. If it is windy, you can put on a windbreaker.
Likewise, if our path does not seem great, we find what really are the causes by using fengshui and can look to geomancy for help.
In Chinese we refer all relationship as "Liu Qin 六亲",
the six relations with father, mother, elder brothers and sisters, younger brothers and sisters, wife and children.
Have you ever met with someone maybe your firend or your colleague and they told you that they are always having relationship problems with their wife or with their parents or with their chidlren
or even to the extent of having the same problems with all their next of kin?
Now the question is, if you can choose, do you want to avoid all these problems?
Can this be interpreted from our BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny?
Chart 2. Her nine "10 years luck cycle (大运 "ta yun") chart.
Eventhough, you have selected a good and auspicious day for your baby, the final decision is still based on the BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny of the baby that will determine the baby's future.
The fate of your baby is determined by the baby's Four Pillars which uses "ji xiong 吉凶" to determine their future.
If you can select a good and auspicious day, you might as well select a good BaZi for your baby.
"A good and auspicous day does not necessarily means good BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny."
"好日子不等於好八字"
Chart 2. Her nine "10 years luck cycle (大运 "ta yun") chart with sixty years of bad luck.
Have ever you noticed that some kids that are brilliant at school, but they do not need to study hard? They are just smart.
Their concentration and memory are just perfect.
Are they born with the luck? A gift from heaven?
They was a boy that always spent a few hours a day in front of his computer or playstation. He was doing the same routine even when his examination was drawing near.
He did study but with minimum efforts.
His mother doesn't seem worried. I asked her and guest what was the answer. "Let fate take its own course". When the result came out, he scored straight A's.
Chart 2. Her first two "10 years luck cycle (大运 "ta yun"). An excellent study luck.
With a comprehensive BaZi or your child destiny map can assist all parents to be more understanding and fulfilled their duties and responsibilities for upbringing and shaping their children's future.
Almost all couples especially the more educated ones would plan to start a family after marriage.
They reckon that the quality of bringing up one or two children is more important than having too many children as they cannot afford to spend quality time with them.
So they decided to have one or two children in common with most parents.
They sacrifices a lot of their time and much of their financial being channeled towards their children's education and welfare.
The joy in watching their child growing up can be a great joy.
However during this stage of the child such joy is often accompanied by numerous problems often result in parent sporadic quarrels, arguments and even lead to separation.
