“I have been married for more than 40 years and am a mom of three boys and two girls.
When I was young I worked for a shirt manufacturing factory, working long hours and was tiring. After married, I stayed at home, doing the entire ordinary housewife’s chores; cooking, cleaning, taking care of my children and husband. My husband works as teacher in one of the many primary schools. His paycheck is not huge but income is quite stable. My entire life, I do not face any major ups or downs. My entire life is quite stable. Even though my husband is not making a lot of money, we have enough to spend and we are not lacking of any main necessity. My family members are all living harmonious and we are very happy”
She is one of the examples of many ordinary wives.
This is the second part of the article “Jinxes husband 剋夫命” You can read the first part by click the link here.
Very often if not all, the man will show even stronger symptoms of disaster on a particular year. Somehow very coincidentally it reflected in his wife’s BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny; some even reflected in their children BaZi Four Pillars. You can say this as coincidence, it up to you to decide.
It is just very unfortunate that all the blame go to the ladies especially in older Chinese community. When the opposite happened, very seldom the man is to blame and getting another wife is also not very difficult.
In older days, when the husband dies young, his left behind wife was to blame to have jinxed her husband. This believe still persist until today. Is this of any truth? Have someone actually do a study of their BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny to determine the actual reason behind the death?
Her Bazi only have one “Spouse star” at her year stem. The rest are either “Friend” or “Food God”. All these stars are the enemy of her spouse star and with “Food god” sitting at her spouse palace. From her BaZi it already shows that her husband star in very weak. Anymore suppressing will break her husband star.
Chinese New Year Eve usually is on 30th lunar day of 12th lunar month. However, a lunar month might have only 29 days. In this case, the Chinese New Year Eve becomes on 29th day of 12th lunar month.
For 2012, New Year Eve falls on 29th day of 12th lunar month that is 22 Jan 2012.
The next day 23 Jan 2012 will be a new moon day, which is the Chinese New Year Day.
It is a custom in a Chinese household to thoroughly clean their home before the Chinese New Year’s Eve to get rid of the bad luck of the previous year.
It’s similar to the “out with the old, in with the new”. In ancient China this is usually done on the 28th day of the 12 lunar month. However, this day might not be auspicious. Therefore other auspicious day is selected.
In FengShui or BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny, sometime I felt it is a bit cruel but we have to find a definition for what “Good luck” means. Chinese are very materialistic and the definition of Bad or Good luck lies in one word.
“MONEY” or "财 "
The last word from Gong Xi Fa Chai 恭喜发财.
Of course this defintion is only applicable to adults but the age boundary is getting younger and younger.
Sudden death in young people is rare, but it does happen.
It is really a tragedy for their close families members.
Afetr their younger was no longer around, many of the parents wanted an answer.
They wanted to know if this tragic event was pre-written.
In almost all occasions, our BaZi Four Pillars of Destiny does shows symptoms of disaster. But not all disaster means death.
We can still hope for the best.
Even a BaZi does show that he will face a disastrous year. he or she can be very sick but recovered in the following year.
Chart 2. Her first "10 years luck cycle (大运 "ta yun").
She died in a fire that hit her house in 1963. She was only 6.
