It seems like every week I have a new message from someone unique telling me that they are having a hard time finding
someone to spend the rest of their life with.
Different reasons seem to be holding each one down respectively,
but the end result of confusion and sadness is usually about the same.
Some asked me, it this because his wife stars "are sealed in the grave".
When Spouse Stars go into grave 配偶星入墓, this does not necessary means that the person cannot get married. Spouse stars can come out from the grave.
This will depend on the person's luck his/her 10 years luck cycle (大运 "ta yun").
Chart 2. Her 10 years luck cycle (大运 "ta yun").
"When there was strong support, there was no spouse stars to support."
"When there was spouse stars, there was no support."
There is nothing absolute sure kind of stuff in this world. In term of marriage, one Spouse star is enough no need to have more.
One is ideal, two is a bit more and have many, you are looking for trouble.
This is his Four Pillars of Destiny. A very good BaZi birth chart,
not with one spouse star 配偶星 "pei ou xing" but with four spouse stars.
But he did not manage to find a single girlfriend until ...
There are many cases when we do not know which hour we were born. It is not unusual that when we read a chart, the hour is missing. One out of four pillars or you can say 25% missing data can change the reading drastically. This will affect the strength of the day master which in turn will affect the whole reading.
There are many ways in the hour pillar reconstruction. One way is simply doing it the old fashion way; trying all the 13 possible hours (11 animal signs plus early rat and late rat altogether 13 branches) . by matching DM's (daymaster) major life events, personalities and family relationships.
In this modern complicated era, even old man wanted to re-married. Some older husband that being married for more than 30 years, have grown up chidlren,
have grandchildren, has met up with some China woman "China Doll we called it" who are half of their age and he believes he has found the holy grail! And he insisted that they get married.
Is this Fate or Coincidence? Can you tell from your BaZi 4 Pillars chart?
No matter what names is given they cannot run away from the following 4 group of BaZi charts.
1. Day Master 日元 Weak 弱格.
2. Day Master 日元 Strong 旺格.
3. Day Master 日元 Extreme weak 從格.
4. Day Master 日元 Extreme strong 專格.
So next time when you heard someone gave a name to a particular chart and no matter how horrible and scary it may sound or how magnificient the name can be, the type of chart still cannot run away from the above 4 types.
And reading the chart will still follow the basic rules and fundamental.
The above four type is extremely important as it determines which are your favorable stars and which are your bad stars. It this is wrong, the luck will turn 180 degree.
I was recently asked by a friend of mine. She is a bit worry about her daughter. She is now 30 and still single. Never have a boyfriend and seldom go out.
I told her, not all of us have spouse star in our BaZi Four Pillar of Destiny chart. I myself do not have one. I was married some twenty years ago. We are still as loving as before.
We have two kids, one boy and one girl.
Yes not all of us have spouse star 配偶星 "pei ou xing",
BUT ALL OF US HAVE SPOUSE PALACE 夫妻宮 "fu qi gong".
